It is fair to say that John, like all the Moynihan’s, were a little unsure of me upon my arrival into Michael and their lives. However, this did not for a moment stop them welcoming me with anything but kindness and love. In the early days of mine and Michael’s relationship I was navigating myself between London, Horsham and Brighton which led to many occasions where John would kindly give me a lift in his car. Just the two of us, I would chatter away throughout the 45 minute drive with his involvement being the occasional “riiight” said in that way he did. When I think of him, this is what I picture him saying, “riiight” the word filled with such kindness and support. It was just one word but you knew it meant how he was never going to judge, always let you do things your way while still unfalteringly being there for you with kindness and support should you need it. 

My favourite memories are us playing board games at Christmas, though at the time I did not appreciate his cheating! His delight that I was coming over so he would have a Chardonnay drinking buddy and the one that brings the biggest smile to my face is recalling, when visiting us in Sydney, the occasion he tried to stand up on our paddle board. Yes, ‘tried’ is very much the operative word there as it did end in a big splash and him getting much wetter than intended!

He helped us move house on so many occasions, both in England and Australia, and I would approximate that most of the furniture we own has been assembled by his hands. I simply could not have wished for a kinder, more loving or supportive father-in-law and I am so grateful for everything you have done for us. I am sure that the words I would have said to you the most are “thank you”. X x